Thursday, April 7, 2011 at 1:01pm
Dear Friends,
Hello
and how are you? In 2 days I will have been in Ghana for 3 months and
only have 2 more months to be here. This has been the most incredible
and life changing experience of my life and I am grateful for all of it.
I have come to love this place and the people here more than I thought I
could. I daresay I will agree with the statement that Ghanaians are the
most friendly people in the world. I’ve not been all over the world yet
but I think they have set the standards pretty high. There have been
frustrating moments mostly due to cultural differences and
misunderstandings but those moments are far outweighed by many more
moments of understandings and connections. There are few things I love
more connecting with people through conversation. It is something I
value above most other things and I have been blessed to have made some
great friends here.
Classes will go for about another 2 ½
weeks before we have to write exams. There is a ‘revision week’ at the
end of April which appears to consist of the professors prepping us for
the exams. I can’t believe we only have a couple more weeks of classes
before finals!! Feels like we are only about half way through. In May we
will write our exams and I imagine they are going to fairly difficult.
For reasons nearly beyond my understanding, they have spread the finals
out over the whole month. My exam schedule, barring any changes, has me
taking exams on the 5th, 16th, 17th, 19th, and 27th. I can’t fathom why
they would spread them out over such a long period and not take them
within a week, maybe 2. Part of the reason, I think, is space. For exams
they like to spread you out in a large room to prevent cheating, which
is ironic because I’ve seen and heard people cheating in nearly every
exam I’ve taken and it doesn’t seem to be addressed even when the person
is speaking loud enough for the half a dozen TA’s to hear. It boggles
the mind. Also, quizzes are rarely taken during your regularly scheduled
class time. I’ve had a quiz on Sat. morning. Again, they seem to do
this so they can use the venues they deem worthy or spacious enough to
accommodate the group.
I’ve taken several tests here and I
still don’t know how to determine they grade here except that they are
pretty tough. I don’t understand how they grade or maybe why they would
choose to nitpick about spelling or grammar as opposed to content and
ideas. It seems ridiculous to me and frustrating, probably because that
is something that we don’t put much value on at home. It just seems that
if you have the idea and are correct about it then something seemingly
minor such as where you put your comma or if you wrote can’t instead of
cannot ought not to be so significant. That is to say some of the grades
I’ve gotten on quizzes have been disappointing and frustrating. Of
course, I accept that I can always study harder but its so hard to do
when you really have no idea what they are actually grading. They grade
very tough here.
I don’t know much about grading on a bell
curve but that is something they do here I guess. In hearing from the
professor who is here from MI, the first faculty meeting they had
involved the faculty sitting around discussing how many people should
get A’s or B’s and such. Wow!! Wow!! Wow!! I don’t know how you can
grade that way and be successful. If someone earns an A, they should be
graded accordingly. Similarly, if they get an E, (their F here) then
that is the grade they get, but to give someone a grade based on what
you think is entirely unacceptable to my mind. I don’t understand why on
earth you would do that. Now, I’m not sure how much truth is in that or
how practically it is applied but I wonder if that has something to do
with the grades here. As I say, I can certainly try harder and I will
but I don’t have much confidence in this system at this point.
School
has been a constant challenge, as you might guess. Just when I think
I’ve got something figured out, I discover something new that totally
reverses whatever I just learned or thought I learned. I feel we have
been ill-prepared for the practical aspects of school here by the
international center. Nearly everything we have learned has been the
hard way and I feel some of this frustration could have been avoided
with some actually helpful orientation sessions.
But
lectures are just one aspect of my time here, albeit a large one. I
enjoy the content of my classes a great deal and have learned so much
about the culture here. Course, just being here is a study in culture,
but taking classes on Ghanaian culture just explain that much more.
There’s always more to learn and I’m trying to absorb as much as
possible.
I had hoped to be able to do some volunteer work
during my time here but that is not something I have been able to work
out. My interests are in human rights issues and those NGO’s or other
organizations are more difficult to find, at least for me, than are the
ones involving teaching or medical work or agriculture work. I have met a
few people doing work with human rights and I’ll make some inquiries
about those organizations. Even though I had hoped to do some volunteer
work, I have been kept sufficiently busy with classes and traveling.
On
Friday, the 25th, a group of us went to a play on campus. They do plays
every weekend and this is the first one I went to. They did 2 plays.
The first one was a more traditional one dealing with a couple and the
woman couldn’t get pregnant by her husband so she ended up seducing,
shall we say, his brother. It was an interesting one and I missed a lot
of what was going on due to language and cultural differences. Still, it
was interesting and well acted. The second one was more modern and
pretty funny. It took place in a hospital waiting room. There were
several characters from different backgrounds who came in and were
waiting to see the doctor. There was a construction worker, a banker I
think, a woman who looked a bit like she might be a prostitute, a
politician, a prisoner and his warden, and then a high-up government
official. It was a play about how money or power influence how long you
wait for the dr. and what happens when you try to jump the queue. It was
pretty funny and I liked that one more than the first one.
Then
on Saturday, they had a basketball tournament between some local
universities out on the court in front of our hall. I ended up going
down and watching several games. It was a lot of fun. Each team played
each other team in a round robin sort of arrangement I guess. The
tournament or competition was sponsored by Tigo, a local phone company,
so everything from the tents to sit under to the ‘commercials’ on the PA
were Tigo. It was overkill African style I’d say. There were banners
hanging from the balconies of the dorms, t-shirts galore, every
announcement seemed to be about Tigo and the various benefits of their
company. It was a nonstop onslaught of Tigo propaganda when you were
trying to watch basketball. The games were fun and it was a nice change
from watching football/soccer all the time. I like soccer but I
understand basketball more. The UCC team didn’t do very well but it was
still fun to watch. I must have watched 6 games. The championship game
was really good!!! It was a close game and so fast-paced!! It was a
great way to spend a Saturday that you didn’t have any plans for.
That
Sunday I babysat Elle, professor Stabler’s daughter. They went with a
small group to take a canoe ride from Cape Coast castle to Elmina castle
and back. I didn’t want to go so I stayed and watched Elle. She is 3
years old and so smart. She picks up on things that I wouldn’t think a 3
yr old would pick up on and she has a pretty sharp memory. It was fun
to play with her but I was pretty tired and just wanted to sleep. She
wasn’t sleepy. LOL!! The canoe they rode was a big one that they use for
fishing here and holds maybe 20 people or so. Not sure but sounded like
an interesting trip.
Then this past Friday, April 1,
Patrick, Abby, David and I went to Accra. We had been planning this for a
while and finally got to go. We didn’t leave until maybe 6:30pm. A
couple of them had classes they couldn’t miss on Friday so we went to
the ‘Ford station’ after they were done. The Ford station is a gas
station with an area in the back where you wait for the Ford vans to
pick you up. The vans are air conditioned and in fairly good conditions,
as compared to a trotro which is a falling apart, afraid for your life,
scary ride packed in with too many strangers. We waited for an hr and a
half for our turn. There were lots of people waiting so we had to wait
for the next van. Finally got one and headed to Accra. It was only about
2-2 ½ hrs into Accra which was pretty fast. These guys are crazy
drivers. Its no surprise they have so many accidents here. On the news
yesterday they were talking about it and showed a stat of nearly 2000
reported accidents in Jan and Feb of this year alone!! It’s insane!!
When
we got to the bus station, which was an over-crowded area full of more
vans, people everywhere, many selling all kinds of wares, garbage all
over, and more smells than you want to try and identify. Basically, your
typical populated area. David who is Ghanaian, was our savior this
weekend. He knows Accra and how to get around safely. We got a cab to
take us to the guest house we were planning on staying at. Its not safe
to out and about at night. There are pickpockets and other various
criminal elements that you are better off avoiding, especially if you
are white and stand out like a night-light. Haha! We got to the guest
house which was in a decent neighborhood and that was a relief. I had a
cold and was tired and ready to sleep. Well they only had 1 room they
said and it was more than we wanted to pay and it sounded like it
wouldn’t have slept 4 comfortably anyway so we walked about 5 minutes to
a place we had seen on our ride to the guest house. Their prices were
way too high and so after checking with a friend of David’s we decided
to try the guest house again. Miraculously they had another room
available when we came back. Huh. We decided to take a look and see what
they entailed. The one room which was the cheaper one had a full size
bed, a closet, table, and a chair with an overhead fan. Acceptable.
Looked clean enough. Shower and toilet were next door. The next room
which was more expensive was pretty big. There were 2 full size beds, a
couch, a tv, an a/c and a closet. We could have easily all slept in
there comfortably but the guy was being a jerk and wouldn’t let us,
saying we can’t have 4 people in the room which was a bunch of crap,
excuse me. Anyways, we ended up getting the 2 rooms. I was just glad to
have a place to stay for the night.
Next day we got up and
headed into town. First stop was the art centre/cultural centre. This
was a big area with probably hundreds of stalls with people selling
handcrafts and various tourist items. The stalls were mainly under
roofed areas with dozens under one roof. The aisles were narrow and
walking down them meant everyone was yelling at you to come look at
their stuff. Come look! Come look!! I can’t hardly handle their
aggressive style. It doesn’t make me want to look at all. Grrr!!! It was
early in the day so not very many people were there shopping so, lucky
us, we got the attention. Ughh!!! Being inconspicuous here is never an
option. Ever! We ended up buying a few things before leaving for our
next stop. We were hungry and needing food so we walked until we found a
place to eat. We had fried rice and chicken with water and Alvaro. It
was really good!! That was the biggest piece of chicken I’ve eaten here
yet and so good. Alvaro is a carbonated fruit drink here that is so
tasty!!
Next door too the restaurant was the book store we
were looking for so we went in for about an hour. The a/c always feels
so good. It was up on the second floor and was decent sized meaning it
was the biggest one I’d seen yet. They had some great local children’s
books that I couldn’t pass up. Hated to leave but we had more stops to
make so we had to leave the a/c and venture on.
We spent
most of the day walking which was exhausting and irritating mostly cuz I
was exhausted. Anyways, we went to Independence Square which is where
they have lots of national events I guess. All we saw was a large empty
square with covered stadium seating around the edges with a statue up
high on a pillar overlooking the square on one end, as well as a large
colorful bowl thing that looked like you might light it somehow. Not
much to look at really. We took some photos and were leaving when some
security guards from way across the parking lot started shouting at us.
We debated whether we should make a run for it or stay and see what they
wanted. We didn’t think we’d done anything wrong. There were no signs
up about photography or trespassing or anything so we decided to see
what they wanted. David went over first to talk to them and they said
they didn’t want us taking photos. Psshhh!! Whatever!! I mean seriously,
it’s a large empty square, what’s the problem?? Turns out the
presidential palace is nearby and you are not allowed to photograph it
and it’s possible, had we known it was there, we might have somehow
gotten some shots of it, terrorist spies out to overthrow the government
that we are with our bulky backpacks and stark white skin . . . Right. I
know that’s what you were thinking our agenda was for going there. . .
LOL!! When we got over to them we were talking with them and they wanted
us to delete our photos. We got out our cameras and were going to but
then they said no it was ok, we could keep them but not to take anymore.
So we left and walked to the national sports stadium where the Black
Stars play, the national soccer team, as well as other sports teams I
guess. They wanted us to pay to go in and we didn’t want to so we left.
From there we walked to the national theater where they have
performances like plays and concerts I guess. The building resembles a
boat for some reason and again we weren’t allowed inside. At this point,
I was tired of walking in the miserable heat and ready to be done
seeing stupid tourist things that only Patrick wanted to see. Bah!! Yes,
I’m whining a bit. I’m not much for tourist attractions, especially
empty ones that require miles of walking to see. Then we went to the W.
E. B. Dubois Memorial which was somewhere near the American embassy. We
didn’t take any photos at the embassy because IT WAS CLEARLY LABELED “NO
PHOTOGRAPHY” . . . oh and there were guards with large black guns, too.
The Dubois memorial was interesting sort of. I dislike museums
generally as I can’t really take photos in them and I find them boring.
We may have already discussed this in the Kumasi update. Anyways, this
is the place Patrick wanted to see most as he’s a fan of Dubois. The
place was a house that Dubois lived in that was converted to a museum
after his death. I wouldn’t have gone through it but Patrick offered to
pay so why not? It was cooler than the empty stadium, square and theater
anyway. Part of the tour included another building right next to the
museum . . . Where he was laid to rest. Yep. Right there. She opened the
door and BAM!!! Right there on the floor was the grave or tomb or
whatever you call it. Not at all what I was expecting to see in that
building which was somehow octagonal in shape. Next to him was a small
wooden box inside of a glass case where his wife was. Aww isn’t that
sweet??? No!! Creepy and odd I say! I mean, I guess its maybe not so odd
but not something I’d have chosen to see. The cool part was the stools
that were there which I took photos of. Stools are very important to the
culture and are a symbol of royalty and wealth and such. These ones
were given to Dubois by various people and were very nice.
As
we were leaving there to find water and get to a taxi we passed a café
that had a pretty sweet cherry red corvette in great condition outside. I
asked the 2 gentleman who were sitting there if I could take some
photos. They said I could and that I could take it if I wanted. I
laughed . . . And considered it seriously. Haha! I have no desire to
drive in the madness that is traffic here, especially in that car. No
thanks!! I’ll keep walking.
Eventually we made it to the
mall!! Hallelujah!! Hallelujah!! Haha! It was the planned end of the day
and a much appreciated and welcome one. It was like a little slice of
America right in the middle or somewhere of Accra. Not sure it is in
central Accra. I digress. It was great!! There was a/c which is always a
welcome and sought after luxury. First stop was the food court where we
had ice cream!! Real ice cream!! Ahhh so nice!! I had lemon and
vanilla. Yummmmmmm!! The mall isn’t very big and I’d guess maybe half
the stores are for electronics. They had a movie theater upstairs. No
idea what movies it was playing. We stopped in to the book store there
and only bought some postcards. It was expensive for the books and we
didn’t really need any of them. They had movies and music there too. We
walked around the mall for a short while before getting some supper. In
our wanderings we found 2 American style grocery stores, complete with a
produce section and a frozen section and such. Wow!! I didn’t actually
go in them but Patrick and Abby did and found some nice luxuries such as
soup mixes and sauce mixes as well as BASIL!!!!!!!!!!!! They found me
some basil!! I’ve been wanting some since I got here and hadn’t found
any yet and was kicking myself for not bringing some from home. They
also bought KitKat bars. Tasty. I’ve seen Snickers and Butterfingers in
Cape Coast. Always a nice treat. Their food court was similar to ones
you’d find at come with a play area in the middle with rides and such
for kids. Abby wanted to jump on the inflatable jumping cage thing that I
can’t think of the name for at the moment .. . Bouncy castle?? I don’t
know. Anyways, after looking at the various places, some pretty basic
with chicken dishes and pizza, as well as a few nicer/spendier places,
we decided on pizza. I do love pizza!! We also had smoothies, real
smoothies from one place. Smoothies here often mean a mixture of 2 or
more juices with no ice or coldness involved. Very disappointing but
these ones were cold and delicious!! The pizza was also delightful. I
had a pepperoni and olives. Abby had a meat-lovers one and Patrick a
veggie one and we all shared them. They were the closest to American
pizza that I’ve had yet and were so good. It was like a mini vacation
which I’m sure sounds strange but its true. It was so nice to be in a
familiar setting and for once be the one showing David around. Haha! Not
that I’ll be spending all my time at the mall when I get home.
Certainly not!! But it was sure nice for a few hours. Hated to leave but
we had to find a hotel for the night.
It had been a long
day and we were ready to call it a night. We took a trotro back to the
station where we were planning on going back to the guest house we had
stayed at the night before. Oh!! Just remembered something!! In one of
our trotro rides I got to hold the most adorable baby ever!! No offense
to those of you with the most beautiful children in the world. This
little guy was just so cute. His mom was trying to get into the trotro
and couldn’t quite maneuver the baby and her dress without some
difficulty so since I was sitting near the door I asked if I could help,
thinking I could give her a hand or something. Instead, she just hands
me the baby. He was maybe 3-4 months old, chubby cheeks, and beautiful
curly hair. Oh goodness!! What beauty!! He didn’t even cry when he saw
me. Perhaps he was too young to be frightened. He just sat there happy
as ever. She let me hold him until we started moving and I passed him
back to her, concerned that if there were an accident of some kind that
I’d be holding him. No thanks on that note!! Seatbelts are an
afterthought here and I’ve never seen anyone wearing them. Kids ride on
the drivers lap or wherever and certainly aren’t strapped in in any way.
Scary dangerous especially with how they drive here. Yikes!! Anyways,
that was a huge highlight. Such a precious little guy!!
When
we got to the station, we made some phone calls and it seemed the guest
house was full so we would have to find other accommodations. David
asked around and got some directions to a place nearby so we headed
there. Again, being out at night and being white especially is not
entirely safe or advised. We walked quickly and attempted to look like
we knew what we were doing. No idea how well we pulled that off. Haha!
David wasn’t sure where the place was so we asked a couple people and
the directed us down an ally. We thought maybe this ally would lead
through to an open area or another road. Instead, from this ally we went
down an even shadier, and I don’t just mean dark, ally which looked
more like a fire escape between 2 buildings that we could barely fit
between. We went up some narrow and steep stairs and through the door at
the top. I commented that we must be coming in the back and that if
anyone at home saw me at this moment they’d sure be mad. Ha! Oh just
wait. We go through the door into a dark short hallway where a few
people were standing around. We walked to the small area that was just
around the corner from the door we’d come through to where we thought
‘reception’ was or might be. There was a paper with rates on it above
this little closet-sized opening where there was a computer and a couple
chairs with a woman nearly passed out in one. There were other people
in the small cramped area but I didn’t look at any of them. There was a
blue light giving off a small amount of light adding to the sketchy feel
of the place. We couldn’t have been in there for more than a minute
before David headed out, back down the stairs quickly without saying
anything. We just followed, all relieved that we wouldn’t be staying
there. When we got back out to the street he tells us that it was
essentially a whorehouse/hourly hotel. LOL!! Oh my!! None of the people
he asked about a room worked there. The rates on the sheet included
hourly though I only saw the 9GHC/night before I stopped reading. We
left the area quickly and went back to the bus station where we intended
to see about other accommodations. Being in the bus station we decided
to see if we could find a ride back to Cape Coast that night rather than
waiting for tomorrow and trying to find a safe place to sleep in that
area. By the grace of God, the bus going our way had 4 seats left!! Four
seats just for us!! Oh, you have no idea the relief it was to get on
that bus and be headed back to CC!!! Enough of empty attractions and
shady accommodations!! Give my room in the hall any day. Hahah! Our
short trip into that building could have resulted in a very dangerous
situation. Prostitution is illegal and if they had thought we were spies
for the police or something we could have been seriously hurt or
killed. If we had somehow ended up staying there it is likely that we
would have been robbed for sure and probably also harmed. Praise God for
getting out in time and not coming to any harm. I truly believe God
protected us from any harm from that event and that He brought us back
safely. Praise God!!!
Such an adventure!! It was great to
be back in CC. It was about 11:45pm when we got to the dorm where we sat
and rehashed the events of the day. For my first trip back to Accra it
was quite the adventure and certainly unforgettable. Ha! Sorry for the
scare some of you may get when reading this, especially the last part.
You just never know what is going to happen here even when you have a
local person with you.
So that was last weekend. This week
has been fairly uneventful. Sunday after our adventure Abby and I watch
the Bourne trilogy and didn’t do much else. Just needed a day off I
guess. I don’t have plans for this weekend other than to study and stick
around campus for the most part. I think this is long enough for now so
I’m going to end it here and wait for the next adventure to update you.
Love and miss you. Take care and God bless!!
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